This man roams around as if he is the next cousin of Harichander. He says that he cant tolerate lies,dishonesty and he also prefers to stay away from them and the people who uses it. He musn’t be strong at heart for he thinks that he might also use the methods of deception if he stays around with people who deceive people. Hence he groans, complains , cries and makes the ones around suffer. Given the fact that he prefers to be alone, its he complaining to himself mostly about himself hence the sufferings are also his. But why this kolaveri? Why cant he accept deceptions, its so omnipresent in the world and you cant avoid it. The fact that you cant avoid it, should force him to accept it. He has no other choice except to suffer disrespecting the culture the majority follows. Its will be even difficult for him to identify a similar species for they are very rare and closed and dont open up until they know that they arent taken for a deceiving ride.
How can I tell him that honesty is overrated , is he trying to collect it as a virtue to show off in his hall of fame? He only suffers a lot, when he says what he thinks without sugar coating it.He has an immense joy out of it, he never intends to hurt anyone but also never considers how to make people happy.Rather he wants people to be aware , he doesnt call it the truth, he wants the people to be aware of what he is aware and he desires to know the same from other people. But lips do lie, eyes do lie , heart doesnt. He reads minds but since he trusts people more than his mind reading skills, he prefer to go by their lips. And when later the lips fail to synchronize with the minds, he curses himself for believing in the lips and thinks/guided to follow other people by their hearts and not by their words.
But he says “Who am I to assume whats going on within anyone else, when I dont understand myself. That would be a great mistake if I do it that way. I want everyone to be aware of themselves and solve the mighty puzzle of existence themselves and help me with just the solution. When I am busy solving my own existential puzzle, its great pain to do it for others. I can be wrong…I expect people to solve it and help me with their answers. We are all solving a huge puzzle together ..arent we?”. I cant help him for he seems to be confused always. He still hangs around expecting honesty and gets hurt when he is repeatedly denied it.
All I ask him now is “Why this kolaveri..what are you going to do with this HONESTY?….”. He says in truth there is a comfort even if its a sad truth. In truth we acknowledge our problems and achievements. In truth there is never a moment of comparison when the universal truth is understood by all of us. Due to the deception life style , the universal truth is lost now and we are all deceived and lost by dishonest men.
Well man you are young now, let me see what do you become when you are old – I threw a challenge at him. He said ,”I will become a old man!” and gave a big laugh. If that was meant to be a joke, I pitied for him for he laughs at such poor jokes. But as I walked along I also smiled thinking that he is going to become a old man and thats the truth! Its when we expect to be a rich man,virtuous man, educated man …. only those things have raised up the deceptions in the world.As that made little sense to me , I warned myself not to think in insane ways like him and returned back to my world.